The RELATE Book

RELATE

Build Meaningful, Trusting, & Lasting Relationships… God’s Way

by Pastor John Eaton

★★★★★  5-star rated on Amazon

About the Book

Tired of surface-level relationships? Ready for something real?

In a world that’s full of filters, highlight reels, and shallow conversations, RELATE offers a refreshing return to what matters most: real connection.

With warmth, clarity, and spiritual insight, John Eaton invites you on a journey to rediscover the purpose and power of relationships—starting with the one you have with God. Drawing from biblical truth and lived experience, he shares honest stories and practical tools to help you build deeper connections that last.

Whether you’re feeling disconnected in your marriage, isolated in your friendships, or just ready to grow in how you relate to others, this book is your guide.

In RELATE, you’ll learn how to:

✓  Cultivate authentic, life-giving relationships

✓  Communicate with clarity, kindness, and courage

✓  Break through isolation and emotional walls

✓  Apply God’s wisdom to every relational challenge

You were made for more than surviving your relationships. You were made to thrive in them.

The RELATE Framework

Six Steps to Relationships That Last

Each letter of RELATE is a practical, biblical step you can start using today.

R

Reroute Your Thinking

Chapter 3

E

Elevate Others

Chapter 4

L

List Your Threats

Chapter 5

A

Accept Your Part

Chapter 6

T

Turn From Your Sin to God

Chapter 7

E

Enlist Accountability

Chapter 8

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RELATE is the kind of book that doesn’t just speak to your mind—it reaches your heart. John Eaton writes with the kind of honesty, wisdom, and grace we all need more of. If you’ve ever struggled to build stronger, more meaningful relationships, this book will show you how to do it God’s way—and it might just change your life.

Chris Boyer  ·  Clearly Business℠ Founder & Leadership Coach

About the Author

Pastor John Eaton

John Eaton is the pastor of Relate Church in Cross Roads, Texas—a church devoted to growing relationships with God and people. In RELATE, he draws from biblical truth and lived experience to help readers build deeper, lasting connections.

Questions about the book? Email Pastor John →

Inside the Book

Table of Contents

Preface

Introduction

1 · A Roadmap for Better Relationships

2 · Your Brain and Threats

3 · “R” Reroute Your Thinking

4 · “E” Elevate Others

5 · “L” List Your Threats

6 · “A” Accept Your Part

7 · “T” Turn From Your Sin to God

8 · “E” Enlist Accountability

9 · Doing Relationships God’s Way

10 · RELATE Changes Things

Conclusion

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Hardcover  ·  242 pages  ·  Global Light Press  ·  April 2025